Hi guys, welcome back on Consistency.
Happy new month of February, the month of love. By the way, valentine is coming, where is your boyfriend ? You are sitting at home, loooonelyyyyyyyyy. Haha i really wish sometimes I could write here with stickers but it is okay.

Enough joke, another valentine day coming in few days, another occasion of peer pressure overflow. Whether we realise it or not, there are so many things done by us in this earth without us understanding the meaning of it, nor really desiring them.
Am I saying celebrating valentine is bad ? Oh nooo. I am just saying that for some of you that love that celebration, whether you show it or not, you are desperate for valentine gifts! But have you ever asked yourself why ?

Is it because you don’t want to be the only one not receiving something and being laughed at? Is it to impress people about how loved you are ? Is it about competition ? Or is it just that you like receiving gifts?
Nevertheless today I am not even really here to lead you to an introspection. I believe we’ve talked about things like that in other articles.

Today my point is; whatever be the reason why you want to celebrate the 14th February, this year BE THE ONE WHO GIVES. Try to forget about receiving for once and just give to whosoever you wanted to receive something from. Show love to people who don’t deserve your love, do something different this year. And let me know how it goes.
The Bible says that there is more pleasure in giving than receiving. Acts 20:35 « ……..,that He Himself said, ‘It is more blessed [and brings greater joy] to give than to receive.’” »

Don’t wait for anyone to demonstrate to you love in order to love yourself. People’s actions help in building self-love but it shall never be a foundation of your self esteem! NEVER and EVER!
Men are versatile and ungrateful in nature. I know you know it but it has to go deep in your heart so that your world stop revolving on people’s opinions and actions.

Keep working on yourself keep manifesting everything that God said about you, never be content. Never sit down and just declare positive things about you without doing anything and expect people to believe it for you. Otherwise Life will slap you.
The worst thing that can happen to someone is to stop growing.

God loves you.